Once A Cheater…??
Hi Austin. I have a question. My husband cheated on me and it only lasted 4 months. He said it was only sex and he never loved her. I want to believe when he tells me it was a mistake and it will never happen again. Can I trust him again? What do you think? – Tanya
Hey Tanya,
The reality is once a partner cheats, there’s a higher-than-high probability they’ll do it again. ESPECIALLY if that partner packs a penis. 🍆
Without knowing the specifics of your situation, I can’t say for sure, but the old adage; “Once a cheater always a cheater” holds true in most cases.
Now does that mean your man is DEFINITELY going to cheat on you again?
Of course not.
There are plenty of examples of infidelity devastating a relationship and then the couple is able to move beyond the hurt and betrayal to form a stronger and more permanent loving bond.
However, that’s the exception rather than the rule.
Unfortunately, there’s SO much misinformation out there about infidelity. You don’t have to look far to find some half-baked talking head or television show spewing senseless garbage about dealing with a cheating spouse.
Just the other day, I was reading an article from a well-known celebrity therapist in which he was counseling women on the ways they could get their men NOT to cheat on them.
What a crock of crap! 💩
It pisses me off when I hear this kind of mindless drivel from these so-called “experts”. Sure, you can strengthen your relationship thereby reducing the chance, but you can’t prevent it entirely.
🚨Unfiltered Truth Alert!!🚨
Ladies, if a man wants to cheat on you, he’ll find a way. I don’t care if your whisker biscuit can bake a cake while calculating trigonometry on the fly… if a man wants to pull a fast one, it’s as good as done.
You can have the most amazing combination of looks, brains and charm of any woman alive but it won’t make the slightest difference. And it doesn’t matter how awesome you are.
Think I’m nuts?
Remember Elin Woods..??
Tiger’s ex??
This graceful and elegant Swedish lass is a catch by ANY standard.
But it didn’t matter.
Tiger parked his Wood in some second-rate porn princess and it cost him his marriage and $100,000,000.
A Hundred Million Dollars???!!!
There isn’t a single snooter on god’s green earth worth THAT kinda coin, Tiger! 💰
Tanya, your husband’s indiscretion aside, I know nothing about his character. So it’s entirely possible this is indeed a one time thing.
Or not.
The truth is the only person qualified to answer your question with any degree of certainty is YOU.
Yes, you.
So listen to your gut on this one… it’ll tell you EVERYTHING you need to know.
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